Very bad bondage shoot experience today.

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What a nightmare. 

You are perfectly right to think about going to the police.  It doesnt matter that you ticked what activities you consented to - the simple fact he continued after you said to stop negates any prior consent.  Going to police could be what it takes to stop him doing this to someone else

If the police contact the site then they should be able to get his email address and whatever name he signed up with and if he has a paid for account then that will give them all his details.  They will be able to trace him.  The fact you have his name and a previous address for him means they should have no difficult identifying and locating him. 

Just very sad and angry to read your story.  There can't be very many bondage home studios in Great Malvern...

Wow! What a scumbag, sounds more like a pervert than a photographer! I can't tell you what to do but a nod to plod could help prevent something happening to another girl. Regardless of any signed consent form he overstepped the boundaries and maybe a visit from the flatfeet brigade will make him shed a tear or two. Hope you are ok now though 

some of this reads like sexual assault. 

reporting is the right thing to do. 

Take time to work out how you feel about modelling and genres and write down your limits even if it's just for your self assurance. 

He needs to be stopped, now! I appreciate you are terribly upset but if you can muster the courage to re live this ordeal for the Police everyone on here will applaud you I'm sure.

Report his arse.

I've worked with this guy before and had the same experience!!! I couldn't breathe and he didn't care!!! He's the reason I don't shoot this level anymore!!! It's the same guy!!!

Happy to chat about it on FB..... We are friends on there! :)

Hi Jade - met you recently when you shot with Kaan (I run Studio Zero in Barnet) and you seem like a lovely girl so I am so sorry to hear you had this experience. 

The form you signed isn't a waiver to do whatever you he wants to you and you are permitted to change your mind. No means "no".

As bad as this is, the only silver lining can be that you act to stop other models having the experience you've had. As bad as you feel today, you'd almost certainly feel worse if you saw another girl posting a similar story in the future and knowing you could have acted. 

Obviously I own a studio and many will think I am biased, but there is huge danger in women going to men's houses alone like this and it always makes me cringe when I hear of models doing this. What happened to you isn't consistent with a modelling experience, it's beyond that.

Thats grounds for assault charges, and I would certainly go to the police, and as a matter of course maybe take Bondage off your levels for a little while... 

Dasvidanias said

Oh jesus christ :(

Im so sorry this has happened to you :(

Do not doubt yourself, report this ****** to the police.

 

 

+1

Straight to the Police!

Omg I'm so sorry you've had to go through this! What an absolute twat! You NEED to report him to the police Hun xxxxx

Arabella said

I've worked with this guy before and had the same experience!!! I couldn't breathe and he didn't care!!! He's the reason I don't shoot this level anymore!!! It's the same guy!!!

Happy to chat about it on FB..... We are friends on there! :)

I KNEW someone else would come forward I knew I must not be the only one!! He acted as if I was being silly for getting upset :( 

This is most definitely a police matter! I'm so, so sorry you had this awful experience.

Oh Jade, so sorry you have gone through this your such a lovely person. Report the Wanker to the Police. 

Andy x

Not sure which one to put my +1 against on this one so +1 to all of the above

You may even find that the guy is already known to the Plod. Fuckwits like this rarely fly under the radar for very long!!!