Does what you do impact your relationships?

RHM.Photo

Doesn't sound like a bad plan TBH. By that time I'm pretty sure we'll have a "sugarmommy.com" for us (the older ladies) full of good looking young guys looking for a "female mentor". I can't wait!

(just kidding eh?)

(Giving Mr Russ Freeman new 'business ideas' before someone else steals them)

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I'm probably not the best person to ask, I left my wife for a much younger model.

RHM.Photo thanks for such a detailed and very candid insight. You're also right that I generally don't shoot plus size or mature models - I've only ever shot one model who's older than me and probably only one or two over Size 12. That probably says something about what in *my* head/brain looks good so I shouldn't expect someone in that condition to accept my own physical shortcomings, which to be fair I am conscious of (I recall being a bit embarrassed when I'd taken my shirt off to agitate a bubble bath for a shoot - so as not to get the shirt wet - and the model walked in to the room; although to be fair she wasn't offended by it I was a little "yeah you really don't want to be looking at that do you?!")

I'd actually be interested in the honest opinions of those I've worked with who can see this, although DM is quite alright! 😂

Yeah we've butted heads on politics but you can't really know someone from the written word. Case in point; I called a local Facebook group out at the weekend because it was just constant far-right conspiracy posts - Corona vaccines, farting cows, Bill Gates, Chemtrails, 5G, take your pick - and several *local* people called me a soft lefty! Me! Left!

Apart from being hardline on one or two bits and bobs I'd call myself a right of centre moderate, albeit one who did vote Leave in 2016 but would probably vote Rejoin now. I was sold the dream, it hasn't happened.

Happy to pick that one up over in General Politics though as all this is wildly O/T.

Two weeks ago my wife Ellis walks into the studio while I and a well known model on PP were doing a shoot, she sees her fully undressed and asked "can I get you something to drink, oh btw aren''t you cold?".

She's got a great sense of humor, we're together since 1997 and happily married since 2002. She's ok with it and didn't raise an eyebrow, she knows it's innocent.
My photo's aren't of any explicit nature, Ellis trusts me and I have absolutely no intention to disappoint her.

(btw, this was my first photosession ever with a model without clothes.)

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Studio-SL19 said

Two weeks ago my wife Ellis walks into the studio while I and a well known model on PP were doing a shoot, she sees her fully undressed and asked "can I get you something to drink, oh btw aren''t you cold?".

She's got a great sense of humor, we're together since 1997 and happily married since 2002. She's ok with it and didn't raise an eyebrow, she knows it's innocent.
My photo's aren't of any explicit nature, Ellis trusts me and I have absolutely no intention to disappoint her.

(btw, this was my first photosession ever with a model without clothes.)

Edited by Studio-SL19

When my wife sees a photo of mine where the models nipples are standing up she'll ask if it was cold in the studio. My first photo session with a model without clothes, I brought every bit of gear I owned; the model walked in and said something like "oh good, your know what you're doing", and I dropped the camera on the floor. 

When we met my wife simply asked if I was doing photography in order to try and sleep with girls. 

She stated if I don't give her a reason to be jealous, she would never be jealous.  

She has never had a reason to be jealous, and is in fact good friends with a number of my model friends.

CalmNudes said

…. and I dropped the camera on the floor. 

Sorry to hear that and yet I can see it happening.
Were you actually able to take any photos at all, or was the camera ruined?

Studio-SL19 said

CalmNudes said

…. and I dropped the camera on the floor. 

Sorry to hear that and yet I can see it happening.
Were you actually able to take any photos at all, or was the camera ruined?

It survived, there's actually one I shot that day on my port. Although I haven't shot with it in 10, maybe 15 years now the camera came to a recent shoot to act as a prop and still seems to be in working order.