Having had the pleasure of being told that I needed an operation, I would advise anyone who is having trouble having a pee to see their gp asap. Being stupid I thought that things would get better but they did not and I ended up at A&E. A catheter was fitted and I was told that it would be best if I had the turp operation.
It took over 3 months before I had the operation and many silly things were done which were upsetting. For example I was sent for a urine flow test which cannot be done if a catheter is fitted. The consultant had put the test down when I was initially admitted at A&E. I have the appointment letter.
A urine sample was taken and it took over 10 days for my surgery to give me the results. I rang the hospital who told me when the results were sent to the gp. When the gp finally rang me she told me that traces of e-coli had been found so I needed antibiotics. Also had I got pains in my kidneys?
On another occasion the visiting nurse replaced the end of the catheter. A few hours later it fell off and my leg was covered in urine. I rammed the end back on and again it came off. By this time I was feeling very low. I rang for help and a nurse came out. It was as though I was an idiot and got a 'Bless'. The suggestion was to get the old catheter end out of the bin, boil it and fit it back on. That did the trick.
I had to go to the hospital for an endoscopy and was sent to the wrong department. When I finally got to where I should be the nurse there told me to make a formal complaint. It was as though what happened to me was not new.
The catheter was removed and tests were done. I was then told that there were no replacement catheter ends!!! I would need a bag. Imagine lying there on your back with no trousers on arguing. In the end the old top of the catheter was used again.
To put it bluntly the whole process was very unpleasant. This was all a few years before covid.
I was so grateful for the operation and can say that my time in hospital for the operation was excellent. I cannot fault anything or anybody.
After, I was feeling so much better and went in for a review. I was told that traces of prostate cancer were found in the biopsy. As a result I would need a MRI and 6 monthly psa tests.
Things were arranged but I had to ring the hospital to ask where the appointments were. They were on the system and no letter had been sent!
After 3 mris, one a year, I was told that I did not need any more as there was no change. The blood tests continue but they are random. I have been for other blood tests at my gp and have requested the psa test to be added because appointments are not sent.
Sometimes I can see the psa results when I log onto my medical record. Sometimes I have to ring the surgery for the result. On one occasion I was informed that the hospital had requested the test so contact them. When I informed the person that I could not speak to anybody at the hospital I was given my result and informed that the hospital and the surgery are on different computer systems.
So summing up get tested, get the psa test and see your gp if there is any hint of a problem. The sooner the better.
Once in the nhs system look after yourself and pester until you get a test result or an appointment. Praise the few people that do their best. There are some good people but sadly the system seems overwhelmed.